SK4001-04-SELF ESTEEM
Part 1: Your Detailed Guide to Building Self-Esteem
Build Your Unshakeable Core: A Workshop on Self-Esteem
Your Most Valuable Asset is You. It's Time to Invest in It.
Welcome!
At Mercury Edutech Academy, we've
helped hundreds of students in Nagercoil master complex subjects like CA, ACCA,
and CFA. We give you the technical skills to build a great career. But we've
also noticed a hidden barrier that stops even the brightest students: a lack of
self-esteem.
You can be a gold medalist, but if you
still feel like an "imposter," you won't ask for that promotion. You
can pass a tough exam, but if you have low self-worth, you'll be crushed by a
single failure.
This course is designed to fix that. It's
not about arrogance or ego. It's about building a quiet, stable, and powerful
inner belief in your own worth.
What
is
Self-Esteem?
(And What It's NOT)
- Self-Esteem is NOT: Arrogance, ego, or thinking you are "better" than others. It's not about being the loudest person in the room. In fact, arrogance is often a mask for deep insecurity.
- Self-Esteem IS: Your deep, internal, and stable belief in your own value as a human being. It's the quiet knowledge that you are worthy of respect, happiness, and success, regardless of your external achievements or failures.
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Self-Esteem vs. Self-Confidence |
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Self-Confidence is... |
Your belief in your abilities ("I am good at doing this," e.g., "I am confident in my accounting skills"). It is external and task-based. |
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Self-Esteem is... |
Your belief in your worth ("I am a good person," e.g., "I am worthy of respect, even if I fail this exam"). It is internal and core to your being. |
This course focuses on building that solid core.
Why is Healthy Self-Esteem a "Superpower" ?
When you have a stable core of self-worth, your entire life changes.
- You Become Resilient: A failure (like a failed exam or a bad interview) is no longer a personal attack. It's just an event—a learning opportunity you can bounce back from.
- You Stop "People-Pleasing": You gain the ability to say "no" politely, set healthy boundaries, and stop worrying about what everyone else thinks.
- You Overcome "Imposter Syndrome": You can finally own your success. You'll stop feeling like a "fraud" who just got lucky.
- You Handle Criticism: You can listen to constructive feedback without feeling defensive or crushed.
- You Build Better Relationships: You'll stop seeking constant validation from others and be able to build connections based on mutual respect, not neediness.
- You Make Better Decisions: You'll trust your own judgment and stop second-guessing yourself.
What You Will Learn in This Workshop ?
Module 1: Meet Your "Inner Critic"
- Identify the Voice: Learn to recognize the automatic, negative self-talk that runs in your head.
- Understand Its Origins: Discover where this "voice" came from (childhood, past failures, etc.).
Module 2: The Antidote (Self-Compassion)
- The #1 Skill: Learn to talk to yourself like you would talk to a good friend who is struggling.
- Stop the Self-Attack: Practice techniques to stop a negative thought spiral in its tracks.
Module 3: Rewire Your Beliefs
- Challenge Your Thoughts: Learn to question your inner critic. Is what it's saying 100% true?
- Cognitive Reframing: Change your perspective from "I'm a failure" to "I'm learning."
- Affirmations That Work: How to create believable positive statements.
Module 4: Build a "Body of Evidence"
- The Power of Action: Self-esteem is also built by doing. Learn to set small, achievable goals.
- Keep Promises to Yourself: How to build self-trust by being reliable, even when no one is watching.
- Live Your Values: Identify what's truly important to you (e.g., honesty, kindness) and align your actions with those values.
Who Is This Course For?
This course is for you if you've ever:
- Felt like a "fraud" or an "imposter," even when you succeed.
- Been a "perfectionist" who is never satisfied with your own work.
- Felt devastated by a small failure or criticism.
- Found it hard to say "no" and always put others' needs first.
- Constantly compared yourself to others on social media or in class.
- Felt like you are "not good enough," no matter how much you achieve.
Why Learn at Mercury Edutech Academy?
- A Safe, Supportive Space: This is a 100% non-judgmental workshop. We keep our batches small so you feel comfortable.
- Certified Trainers: Learn from experts in soft skills, psychology, and life coaching.
- The Complete Package: We are Nagercoil's premier academy for a reason. We know that the technical skills of a CA or CPA are only half the battle. This course provides the other half: the inner confidence to use those skills.
Your professional qualifications get you in the door. Your self-esteem determines how far you'll go.
Invest in your most important asset: You.
Enroll in our Self-Esteem workshop today and build the unshakeable core you deserve!
Frequently asked questions
Here are some common questions about our company and services.
A. THE BASICS : UNDERSTANDING SELF ESTEEM
Self-esteem is your overall sense of self-worth. It's the deep, internal belief that you are valuable and worthy of respect, happiness, and love, just as you are .
- Self-Esteem is your sense of worth ("I am a good person"). It's about being.
- Self-Confidence is your belief in your abilities ("I am good at this task"). It's about doing.
You can have high self-confidence in your job but still have low self-esteem .
It is not arrogance, ego, or narcissism. Arrogance is often a mask to hide low self-esteem. True self-esteem is quiet, humble, and stable .
It's a core belief that you are "not good enough." It's when your opinion of yourself is negative and you place little value on your own thoughts and feelings .
It's
a balanced, realistic, and appreciative view of yourself. It's about accepting
your flaws and weaknesses while still valuing yourself .
Yes!
This is the most important part. Your self-esteem is not fixed. It's a skill
and a mindset that you can build and strengthen, just like a muscle
.
No.
It's the opposite. When you have healthy self-esteem, you don't need constant
validation from others. This makes you a more stable, generous, and supportive
friend, partner, and colleague
.
This
is the negative voice in your head that judges you, criticizes you, and tells
you you're not good enough. This course will teach you how to manage it
.
It's
the persistent, internal fear of being "found out" as a fraud,
despite your accomplishments. It's a classic symptom of low self-esteem in
high-achievers
.
It's
the foundation of self-esteem. It's the ability to accept all parts of
yourself—the good, the bad, and the "in-progress"—without judgment
.
B. SIGNS AND CAUSES
It often starts in childhood (from critical parents, or bullying) but can be caused by past failures, negative life events, trauma, or constantly comparing yourself to unrealistic standards .
- Constant negative self-talk.
- Being a "people-pleaser" and finding it hard to say "no."
- Being overly sensitive to criticism.
- Comparing yourself to others all the time.
- Perfectionism (believing nothing you do is ever good enough).
- Blaming yourself for everything that goes wrong .
Yes, this is extremely common. This is "Imposter Syndrome." Your achievements are high, but your internal belief in your worth is still low .
- Saying "no" calmly and without guilt.
- Accepting a compliment with a simple "thank you."
- Handling failure by thinking, "What can I learn from this?"
- Stating your opinion respectfully, even if others disagree.
- Taking care of your own needs (sleep, health, etc) .
It
can be very damaging. It creates a "comparison culture" where you are
constantly measuring your real life against someone else's "highlight reel".
C. How
to Build Self-Esteem (The "How-To")
Start with self-compassion. The next time you make a mistake, stop, and talk to yourself with the same kindness you would show to a friend .
It's treating yourself with kindness, especially when you fail or feel inadequate. It's the opposite of self-criticism .
You don't "stop" it, you "manage" it.
- Notice it (e.g., "Ah, my inner critic is here").
- Challenge it ("Is that 100% true?").
- Replace it with a more balanced, compassionate thought .
They can, but only if they are believable. If you have low self-esteem, "I am amazing" feels like a lie. A better affirmation is, "I am a work in progress, and I am learning every day." We teach you to craft believable ones .
When
you set a healthy boundary (e.g., "I cannot work late tonight"), you
send a powerful message to your own brain that your time, energy, and needs are
valuable .
If
you promise yourself you'll wake up 10 minutes early to stretch, and you do it,
you build self-trust. Self-esteem is the reputation you have with yourself
.
Focus
on your own journey. We'll teach you to practice gratitude for what you do have
and to use others for inspiration, not comparison
.
No.
We prefer "Face it 'til you make it." We teach you to face your
insecurities with courage, not just put on an arrogant mask
.
When
you take care of your body (eat well, sleep, exercise), you are sending a
non-verbal message to your brain that "I am worth taking care of"
.
A
powerful tool. We'll teach you to do a "daily win" log (writing down
one small thing you did well) or to write out and challenge your negative
thoughts
.
Don't
deflect ("Oh, this old thing?"). Just pause, make eye contact, and
say a simple, warm, "Thank you" .
You'll
learn to "sift" it. Listen for the kernel of truth that might be
useful, and discard the rest (the emotional, personal attack) without letting
it crush you .
We'll
teach you to separate your action from your identity. You failed an exam; you
are not a failure. This distinction is everything
.
It's
often a symptom of low self-esteem. It's the belief that "If I am perfect,
then I will be worthy of love." We teach you to strive for
"excellence" (which is healthy) not "perfection" (which is
a trap) .
These
are your guiding principles (e.g., honesty, kindness, integrity). When you live
in a way that aligns with your values, your self-esteem naturally rises .
D. ABOUT THE MERCURY EDUTECH WORKSHOP
It's for our students (CA, ACCA, IBPS, etc.), working professionals, and anyone who feels they are being held back by self-doubt, perfectionism, or a nagging "not good enough" feeling .
Our trainers are certified experts in soft skills, life coaching, and psychology, with a special focus on building confidence and resilience in high-achievers .
No! This is a highly interactive and practical workshop. It involves self-reflection exercises (that you can keep private), small group discussions, and building a personal action plan .
No. This is an educational, skill-building workshop. If you are struggling with severe depression, anxiety, or trauma, please consult a licensed therapist or medical professional. This course is a wonderful support to therapy, but it is not a substitute .
Yes,
all participants who complete the workshop will receive a Certificate of
Completion in "Self-Esteem & Personal Development" from Mercury
Edutech Academy
.
"It
is a one-day (6-hour) intensive workshop" or "It is a 4-week (2 hours
per week) program" .
Please
contact our Nagercoil office or visit our website for the latest fee structure
and batch-start dates
.
Absolutely
not. You will never be forced to share anything you are not 100% comfortable
with. All participation is voluntary, and we maintain a strict, confidential,
and safe environment .
We
keep our batches small (15-20 people) to ensure a safe, supportive, and
personalized learning environment
.
Our
trainers are fluent in both English and Tamil to ensure all concepts are
delivered with the sensitivity and clarity they deserve.
You
can enroll by visiting our center in Nagercoil, calling us at 6381560230 , or filling out the inquiry form on our website .
They
are partners. Positive Thinking is about your outlook on the world. Self-Esteem
is about your opinion of yourself. It's hard to be positive about the world if
you don't feel good about yourself. This course is the foundation
.
They
are also linked. When you have low self-esteem, you are more likely to have
strong, negative emotional reactions (like anger or panic). Building your
self-esteem helps you stay calmer and more regulated .
Yes.
In fact, it's especially for you. It's not about turning you into an extrovert.
It's about building your quiet, internal confidence and worth, so you feel
comfortable just being yourself
.
A
notebook and an open mind. That's all
.
Your
self-esteem projects non-verbally. You will sit taller, make better eye
contact, and answer questions with a calm confidence that interviewers can feel .
This
course will give you the tools and the courage to start setting boundaries.
It's a journey, but this is the first step .
We
will give you simple, powerful exercises to practice, like a
"Self-Compassion Break" or a "Daily Win" journal
.
Because
at Mercury Edutech, we believe in building the whole professional. A brilliant
accountant with no self-esteem will have a limited career. We are committed to
your total success
.
The
first step is recognizing that you are worthy of investing in yourself. The
second step is to call us or visit our center in Nagercoil. We are here to
support you
.